After a 26-year military career that spanned both active and reserve duty, I’m convinced that experience is the hardest teacher since it gives the exam before any lessons are taught. Here are some of the important lessons I’ve learned over the past two decades in uniform and from my experiences in public service and the private sector.
1) Take care of yourself
You need to take care of your own health, family, education and career first. Don’t put off going to the doctor, attending family events, investing, or planning your education and career since no one else will.
2) Know what’s important
There’s always more to accomplish than time allows and attempting to do everything is a recipe for disaster and burnout.
3) Be positive
Optimism is a force multiplier that can enable monumental accomplishment. It draws people towards your purpose while negative attitudes push them away.
One of the best ways to learn and expand your horizons is through reading. Books, magazines, journals and blogs are great sources of information.
Don’t confuse hearing, which is passive, with the active function of listening. Listening results in understanding and learning, which is critical to success.
No situation is permanent and thinking is the first step to effecting change. Think about where you’re at and what you want to accomplish.
Commit to your actions and what you tell others you’ll accomplish. Not doing what you say erodes creditability and empowers resistance.
8) Focus on results
Don’t confuse activity with accomplishment since results are what matter.
9) Have a Mentor
Everyone should have at least one trusted advisor they can speak with, discuss ideas and seek council.
10) Start planning now
Decisions made while in uniform will have a major impact on your post-military life. Lifestyle, occupation, income and location are a few items to consider.
For further hints, see Brian Niswander’s article at Military-Transition.org.
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